Voice-ing my opinion one last time; with thanks to the neff!


So I went dark for a bit, blog wise. But no one missed me, no one noticed, no one even caaaaaared! (I actually sang that bit!)

Although I didn’t blog, I certainly wasn’t silent. Anyone reading this who is connected with me on Facebook or Twitter is probably sick of me and is quite relieved I wasn’t blogging ASWELL!!!!!

Due to my eager (and excessive some would say) campaigning supporting my nephew’s efforts to win The Voice of Ireland, I’ve probably bugged some FB friends and Twitter followers. Or at the very least have been unsubscribed by a few… 🙂

I am sorry if I annoyed you. but if I did you probably don’t read my blog anymore either 😀 I’m sorry if you were irked, irritated, bored, throwing your eyes to heaven, wishing you’d never met me, hoping you’d never meet me again!

But I’m not one bit sorry I did it.

I’m monumentally proud of ALL my nieces and nephews. Just cos they’re alive really. They’re all different and I know some of them and their lives better than others; but they’re just fab. I have the great privilege of being able to be totally objective. Having no children of my own I don’t have anyone that I’m obliged to think better of 😀

Kevin Keeley (follow Kevin Keeley Music on Facebook, @keeley_kevin and @kevinkeeleyfans on Twitter… oh sorry; I’m doing it again!) Anyway… Kevin Keeley made it clear he was representing them all. He spoke about how his Grandad (my dad) encouraged us all to sing. Kevin made us proud to be from Tallaght, proud to be Keeleys, proud of the heritage that encourages us to love music. We sat glued to the telly, cheered when he sang and jumped up and down when he got through each round. It was electric. He brought so much fun and joy and laughs and near heart attacks to us all. And we loved every minute of it.

I could spend a few minutes talking about the stuff I didn’t like. The comments that hurt and annoyed, the votes that didn’t come, that decision that knocked him out…. but you won’t hear any of that from him – so you won’t hear it from me 🙂

Thanks so much Kevin – you made us proud and gave us a great reason to spend lots of time together. We’re so excited to see where this journey takes you next. We’re with you every step of the way.

Oh and in case and of you DIDN’T see any of his performances… here’s one for ya

 

Saint Bernard remembered


Yesterday it was 10 years since my father in law Bernard Miles, went to be with the Lord. I have such great memories of him and still miss him. I loved him loads and loads. 🙂 I only knew him for 3 years, but I have some great memories…

 He loved me. He used to greet me by clapping his hands together and rubbing them, saying with a big smile (in his terrible Irish accent) “ahhh sure ‘tis yerself.” And I’d get a big hug. I always smile when I think of it. If ever we were on our own together he’d make a cup of tea or coffee and we’d have a chat. He used to say that he was delighted that Rich found someone who shared his two great loves…. God and music.

He loved Sundays. Before me and Rich were married we often stayed in their house. I’d come down stairs for breakfast with only minutes to spare and he’d be smiling brightly. “It’s the Lord’s Day Annmarie. We’re going to praise the Lord together. Isn’t this the best day!” I would grunt as positive an answer as I could muster and try to butter my toast with my eyes closed.

He loved to work. Very often you’d find him in his overalls attending to one little job or other that needed doing in the house or the garden. He had a garage/workshop that was cleaner than my kitchen. Everything was neatly arranged and in little individual pots or containers. If ever you said, “Dad, have you got one of those nails  shaped like an elephant?” He’d say, “oh I think I have hang on…” Into the garage he’d go; and lo and behold… he’d find one.

He knew I was lazy but he was very gracious. He was building a wall in the garden one time and one day I said, ‘Hey Nehemiah, lunch is ready’ and with a big smile said “the Bible says that Nehemiah had a mind to work Annmarie… and so did his family!”

He loved the Bible. He had such a great love for Scripture. I never heard him preach or lead a Bible study, but we came across some notes he’d made over the years. It’s obvious he had a great love and understanding of God’s Word. And any time I stayed in his house, at some stage during the day, I’d find him in the conservatory reading his Bible.

He loved God. Of all the things I remember about him, his love for Jesus is my most abiding memory of him. He had been sick, but he had an amazing attitude to his illness. He told me once that if he got to stay with us that would be great. But if he didn’t he’d get to be with Jesus. So from his point of view, he couldn’t lose.

“No Dad”, I thought to myself, “we’ll be the ones who lose”

He was and wonderful and had a wonderful witness. I will never forget him and thank God for every memory I have of him.

A Tribute to my 27 nieces and nephews


I love my nieces and nephews so much and am very proud of them. In their honour (cos they are extremely cool), I’d like to do a roll call and share a little memory of each one.

Love you guys, Aunty Amo xxx

Mark Keeley – You stayed with us while your mam was in hospital having Sarah (I think). We got a call in the middle of the night to say she had been born. So I went and woke you up to tell you. I made you cry cos you I mentioned your mammy and then you wanted her. The plan was to make you happy…. #fail 

Lyn Keeley and Sarah Keeley – remember when I used to mind you in the afternoons? We used to listen to music. I think we made up a few dance routines! I remember we listened to Michael Jackson’s Thriller a lot and every time it would get stuck at ‘the funk of 40,000 years’ 

Claire Keeley – has to be when you visited Wales with Laura. We had the craic visiting the Millennium Stadium and the…. information centre! We laughed a lot… mainly at Laura: D Quote of the week has to be, “to the MAX”, sharing joint first place with, “I mean seriously, thank God for hair straighteners!”

Katie Keeley – Kates you were only a few days old when I went to my 2nd debs. Your mam and dad came to the house. I had a Debs dress and a Mohican. You seemed to survive it tho.

Mick Keeley Jnr – Dancing Michael! Mick you were happy to dance with an audience of 1 or 100. I’ve seen many stunning routines over the years. The best has to be Lyn’s 21st. I wasn’t there, but I had heard so much about your performance I had to get the video! I don’t think I’ve ever seen anything so funny.

Maria Brett – I spent a lot of my childhood with you  I remember all sorts of mad things like ‘the White Mariah Show’ and playing in the poppies in the back garden in Limekiln Farm, when we weren’t supposed to. I remember going to Brownies once and I don’t think I went again. Remember those twins who put their hats on over the bobbins in their hair? It looked like they had rabbit ears 😀 Oh and there was the time when most of you stayed in Granny’s and you called in (you were staying in Liz’s) and you showed us your line dancing moves, in a space about 1 foot by 1 foot. Wasn’t easy but you did it 😀

Karen Conlon – Bugsy Malone! That was great craic wasn’t it. You played a young black boy if I remember :D. Your song was great and we had the best laugh. You socked it to Breda Sweeney if I remember…. Actually I think you were a bad influence on me. I often got into trouble when I was with you!!!

Brian Sweeney – To be honest Brian, I think you were drunk when this happened. But I bumped into you in the Dragon (or Ahernes can’t remember). We said hello and you gave me a hug and as i walked away someone said, “Who the f*/@ was that?” and laughed. You replied, “shut up you, she’s my aunty and she’s cool!”

Christopher and Susan Sweeney – Your house in Mountain Park was sold and you came and stayed in Granny’s for a while before the Hollow was built. On the first night I looked after you while your ma and da were finishing off emptying the house. Sue, I think I gave you my teddy Aongus McDougal didn’t I? (the low point of that time was when we all had chicken pox together! 😀 )

Peter Kennedy – I remember the day your mam brought you home from hospital. She brought you to Granny’s first. I ran home from school cos I knew you would be there. I ran in the door, through the hall, into the sittingroom… shouting something and was swiftly grabbed by the scruff of the neck and removed from the sitting room and got a smack for making noise and waking you. I owe you one for that 

Emma Kennedy – I remember when you were nearly due to have Jamie. Your mam and dad were away for a few days so I stayed with you. We stayed awake really late talking about the last few months and how crazy it was that you were about to have a baby!!! He turned out tho alright didn’t he 

Brenda Mockler – You and ‘Sinéadds’ spent what felt like a week (but was probably only 5 minutes) telling me about a fella that you fancied. You asked me for advice (which made me feel very cool) and when I told you what I thought you basically told me that I had it all wrong. Then you started giving me dating advice about Darren Byrne. In fairness… it worked 😀

Susan Keane and Jennifer Farrell – more babysitting and dance routines. This time to ‘Hey Frankie’ by Sister Sledge. I still remember the moves! Susan you were an absolute pleasure to mind. Jen…. you weren’t! 😀

Philip Keane – Phil my abiding memory of you is at family parties you would tell dirty jokes. Your ma would be dying a thousand deaths in the corner. You stood in the middle of the room and made us all laugh.

Dillon Keane – Ah me godson  When you were only a few months old I went on holidays to Wexford with you all. The car broke down in the middle of nowhere and it felt like about 3 weeks before anyone came to rescue us. I had to keep you occupied. You were a fun baby  x (PS I have a picture of that day…)

Jean Keeley – I remember a hilarious conversation with you. I think you had just started secondary school and I was asking you about it. You told me that you had to wear slippers in school. I didn’t believe you and you worked hard to convince me. (Actually I’m still not convinced you weren’t winding me up.)

Laura Keeley – (see Claire Keeley 😀 ) Also, when I moved to Wales first you used to write to me. I still have the letters. You were going through a tough time we had this long distance conversation about it. You drew hearts all over the letters and the envelopes. I used to LOVE getting them. 

Beth Keeley – When you were born, you were (and still are) the image of your mam  With so many people in the family, I rarely got to hold babies for very long. (all 27 of you were passed from pillar to post, you know that don’t you?!) But your mam let me hold you and I was delighted that no one took you off me. At one stage you woke up, opened your eyes, looked at me and… went back to sleep. I took it that you were ok with me holding you, and I did… for ages 

Jack Keeley – You were still living in Tallaght at the time. Can’t remember what age you were but you were just about talking. I was in your house. I sat on the floor beside you as you emptied the toy box all over the floor. You had a very serious look on your face. I thought you were looking for something. When it was empty you looked and me and said, “now, you.” Then you went out the back garden. So I put everything back in the toy box – you bossy boots!! 

Jennifer Keeley – Your 1st birthday Jen! Forever preserved on video! Not my favourite memory of you though and you share it with Susan S… It was Granny and Grandad’s 50th wedding anniversary and I came home from Wales for the doooo. You and Susan were practising ‘Ride On’ by Christy Moore. I stood outside and listened to you then burst in the door at the end. You and Sue lept a few feet in the air and screamed. Got a big hug from you both tho 

Christopher Keeley – I remember when you came to Wales with Liz. Everywhere we went you wanted music on in the car so you could sing. We had some monster singsongs in the car – I nearly crashed, more than once  If I’m not mistaken you ended up with a few quid that weekend too 

Kevin Keeley – The first time I saw you on stage in the Olympia I knew you were going to be a star! You were ‘one of the gang’ but you stood out a mile. The bit where you did the news report in Irish was brilliant. Was VERY proud to be a Keeley and an Aunty that night. I have another memory of you as a kid – but it’s about one night when I was babysitting and you called me to come and see what you did and where you did it…. I can’t tell the story, I wouldn’t do that to you… 😀

Liza Keeley – when you were a baby I was staying in Liz Ken’s house and I minded you there for a day and night. There was no cot so you were in the double bed with me. You’d gone to bed about 8 but by 2 am you were wide awake and all chat. You kept crawling under the covers and hiding down the far corner of the bed and I had to pretend I couldn’t find you. You were lots of fun. (for about an hour, then I wanted to brain you 😀 )

Bobby Keeley – you were in Granny’s and you were only a toddler. I was out in the back porch ironing (that in itself is an event!) I could hear you singing Garth Brooks. “Aaaaahhhh got fwends in yooooow paces….” I could hear you but I couldn’t see you. I knew you were close but I couldn’t work out where you where. Then I spotted you, standing underneath the ironing board – singing away 😀 !

Music from my Mammy – Remembering Betty 6 years on


My Mam died 6 years ago today. She sang this song at births, marriages, goodbyes and any other party that we might have had.
Hearing this song is a memory the whole family shares – so this is for all the Keeleys 🙂

May you always walk in sunshine,
slumber warm when night winds blow
May you always live with laughter
for a smile becomes you so
May good fortune find your doorway
may the bluebird sing your song
May no trouble travel your way
may no worry stay too long
May you heartaches be forgotten
may no tears be spilled
May old acquaintance be remembered
and your cup of kindness filled
An may you always be a dreamer
may your wildest dreams come true
May you find someone to love
as much as we love you

Music on a Monday – Singing the Praises of Marriage


I’ve just discovered two great songs about marriage. One is called ‘Lead Me’ by Sanctus Real.

And the one I totally love is “Dancing in the Minefields” by Andrew Peterson
It is a song about a couple who married young and are looking back on it after 15 years. The chorus goes,
“We went dancing in the minefields,
we went sailing in the storm.
And it was harder than we dreamed,
but I believe that’s what the promise is for.”

That line just sums it up for me! When Rich and I married we didn’t REALLY know each other. And even though we took our vows very seriously and wrote them ourselves based on Ephesians 5, I don’t think we really knew what we were promising.

Within two years of marriage we had lost Richard’s Dad and any hope of having children.
“It was harder than we dreamed but I believe that’s what the promise is for!”

Another line I love is,
“‘Cause the only way to find your life
Is to lay your own life down
And I believe it’s an easy price
For the life that we have found.”

These are encouraging words. And if when my marriage isn’t really like this. It’s a good thing to aspire to.

Links to Lead Me http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yLr6G8Xy5uc
and Dancing in the Minefields http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_Gs3fg_WsEg

They’re worth a listen 🙂

Music on a Monday — The Cousins CD


I’m in the middle of a really fun music project at the mo.

Last year one of my nieces was away and another niece wanted to send her a CD with some of us singing Christmas songs on it. – so she wouldn’t feel so homesick.
That turned into a Double CD with lots of the family singing Christmas songs with backing tracks, and a bonus track of practiaclly the whole family doing “Do They Know it’s Christmas”

It was hard work but the finished product is brilliant, If I do say so……

Some of the family are experienced GREAT singers, others are singers and others still are… well… not. But this was a free for all.
Anyone who wanted to do a song did one.
It was a whole lot of work but twice that in fun 🙂

This year we’re making another one.
It will just have as many of my 27 nicece and nephews as can/will be on it.
Solo spots are only for the more confident singers and then all 27 (hopeuflly) will feature in some way on the final track ‘We are the World’

I heard some of the stuff that’s already been recorded. From Beatles to Kelly Clarkson to Norman Wisdom — so far the songs are amazing.
Coming up there’s an acoustic version of a Beyonce song and a bit of Randy Crawford too….!

We’ve got some real talent in the family. A few X Factor hopefuls that didn’t get anywhere near as far as they should have. Singers that would knock your socks off and at least one guitar player that, as me da would say, “could make the thing talk””.

But FAR bigger that the talent is the love for music in the family. Which seems to be across the board regardless of the actual abibitly.

My brother Christopher is (as usual) doing all the hard work on this CD project. I’m sure everyone on the ‘Cousins CD’ will agree he’s a legend… in his own music room!

Oh by the way…If you come to one of our family parties you’ll be very welcome, but you better bring a song with you 🙂